EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 01:21 AM
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guy friends. sweet&suck-ish.
okay, so i had this reeeeaaaally good guy friend. he was kind of the meanie to all these kids at school, but he was really nice to me. he was totally
annoying and a pain in my ass, but he was still my friend. he liked me a lot and i couldnt help but love every time he'd say, "em, you look really
pretty today" or "hey, lets catch a movie this weekend"
but he was different with his friends, obviously. but what guy isnt? anyway, we dont talk anymore and i have no idea why. last year, we were BEST
friends. during the summer, we lost touch but reconnected towards the end. and now...i just never see him. he's not in any of my classes, i never see
him at parties. we dont even have mutal friends, really. he doesnt IM me, or comment on my picture and i dont know, i just really miss him. but its
the kind of a weird missing. like a lot of people HATE him and dont understand how i could want him to be my friend, but i do. i do, i do, i do! and i
dont know what to do. its like, if i try to talk to him, he puts up a wall. like i'm the bad guy. i gave him a hug once, and said i miss seeing him,
but he just came up with a snarky remark like "well, lets keep it that way"
and its not like he gets all this female attention you know? like i figured he's WANT to be friends with me. do you guys think he'll come around
sometime? or should i just move on and forget our friendship.
sorry i wrote so much
xox
my whole life is a summer town<3
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Tabitha;;LovesEm;;Zombies
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 09:26 AM
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If you're wondering why you guys don't talk anymore.. Why don't you just ask him yourself. Go out of your way and call him or msg him and just
ask.
What's the worst thing that could happen? He could tell you honestly & say he doesn't want to talk anymore or he will help try and fix it.
But it never hurts to ask. : ]
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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Last active: 20-11-2009 at 09:44 PM
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 07:53 PM
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that is very, very true. i should do that, actually. what do i have to lose?
now if i was only better at confrontations...
my whole life is a summer town<3
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kevinq
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Last active: 20-11-2009 at 09:02 PM
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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posted on 19-11-2009 at 08:04 PM
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Just don't make it a big deal in your head. Leave him a text or something or just casually say "Hey whats up between us? You've been acting distant
lately."
It's possible he had feelings for you and saw they weren't going to lead anywhere. Or that he might have heard about you talking badly about him.
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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Last active: 20-11-2009 at 09:44 PM
Location: The Bury<3
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Mood: always got one foot out the door, its making it so hard to say GOODBYE<3
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 12:16 AM
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yeahh i should really ask him. but i always defended him. if someone said they hated him, i said he was nice once you got to know him. but its like,
he just moves on when there is something better, you know? like if there is a prettier girl to talk to, or someone funnier or more popular. i just
cant decide if he's worth it or not.
my whole life is a summer town<3
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kevinq
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 01:53 AM
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Doesn't hurt to ask anyway.
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EMiLYs_ACOUSTiC_SUNSHiNE
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Last active: 20-11-2009 at 09:44 PM
Location: The Bury<3
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Mood: always got one foot out the door, its making it so hard to say GOODBYE<3
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posted on 20-11-2009 at 08:02 PM
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i love how today he said hi to me. IS HE ON CHATMAZE?! IS HE READING THIS!? or is he reading my mind..... :O
my whole life is a summer town<3
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